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Fostering for Purpose Vs Financial Gain.
Fostering is a good will job, that requires skill, time and a lot of energy. Good foster parents deserve financial support and help when fostering children. Children are expensive, and giving up your life to give someone else a fairer … Continue reading
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Tagged abuse, child abuse, family, foster care, Fostering, healing, life, Lived experience, Mental Health, Money, Neglect, parenting, Trauma, UK
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Foster Placement 6 *trigger warning*
Please read placement number 6 before reading placement 6 *trigger warning*. this post is a part two, and has a part one. As I stated in part one, the foster mother was fake, manipulative and somewhat sadistic in her mannerisms. … Continue reading
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Tagged child abuse, family, foster care, healing, historic abuse, life, lived-experience, mental-health, Trafficking, Trauma, writing
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Placement Number 6
The family who lived in placement number 6, were foster parents whom had four biological sons. This family fostered up to four girls at a time, mainly from biracial backgrounds. The foster children slept on bunk beds in one room … Continue reading
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Foster Care Part 2 *trigger warning*
Foster family number 3 In 1991, I was placed with a black family who were personal friends with placement number 2. The new family lived in the same area, a few streets away from foster family number 2. Within four … Continue reading
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Tagged abuse, childhood abuse, CSA, family, foster care, healing, historic abuse, Mental Health, mental-health, social work, Trauma
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Utilizing Recovered Memories
I thought I would post more about my experience of memory recovery, and how it worked for me. First I will touch on the fact that repression of memories doesn’t happen on its own. It happens because care givers around … Continue reading
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Tagged CPSTD, healing, Memory, Memory Retrieval, Mental Health, PSTD, Recovered memory, therapy, Trauma
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The Interrelation of CSA and Personal Circumstance.
Child sexual abuse affects every survivor differently — but the outcomes are not shaped by trauma alone. Class, race, gender, economics, and family systems interrelate with how survivors experience abuse, how they are responded to, and how they recover. Drawing … Continue reading
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Tagged child abuse, dwp-uk, foster care, healing, historic abuse, social services, social-services-uk
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Are Recovered Memories Real?
What a title, and what a war recovered memories saga had on society, the courts and world. When I first learned about recovered memories, it was the only thing that explained what I had gone through. For me, every little … Continue reading
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Tagged betrayal, healing, Memory, mental-health, relationships, Trauma
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BOOK – Child Sexual Abuse in Protective Custody: From a Lived Perspective.
I am writing a book based on my own lived experience within the Bristol City Care system. It is a book broken down into subsections and parts. That include Life Circumstance, Police, Courts & Legislation, Mental Health & Well-Being, and … Continue reading
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Recovering Repressed Memories: A Survivor’s Journey Through Fragmented Trauma and Systemic Neglect
Recovering repressed traumatic memories is not a simple act of remembering — it is an unravelling of pain, confusion, and truth. From the perspective of a survivor of child sexual abuse in care, this piece explores the lived experience of … Continue reading
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Tagged Chilchood, healing, historic abuse, Memory, mental-health, ptsd, Recovered memory, therapy, Trauma
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Fragmented, recovered and repressed memories
Living with a fragmented memory will impact each of us in our own way. We all live unique lives and experiences. These make our memories and fragmented memories unique to us as individuals. In my lived experience, my fragmented memory … Continue reading
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Tagged Chilchood, Fragmented, healing, Memory, mental-health, ptsd, Recovered memory, repressed memory, Trauma
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