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When Records Rewrite Reality: How False Narratives in Social Care Shape a Survivor’s Life

Posted on November 7, 2025 by societyshiddensecret

Decades after leaving foster care, I discovered that my social care files contained false and damaging narratives — ones that followed me into adulthood, shaped how professionals treated me, and nearly silenced my truth. This is how official records can … Continue reading →

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Foster Care Displacement: Criminalization, Credibility, and hidden agenda.

Posted on November 3, 2025 by societyshiddensecret

When I was 10 years old, I spoke up about sexual abuse for the first time.I believed that telling the truth would make the adults around me protect me.Instead, the foster care system was used to displace, criminalize and disorientate … Continue reading →

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Systemic Obstruction: How UK Social Services Undermine Statutory Rights and Accountability

Posted on October 24, 2025 by societyshiddensecret

Introduction The United Kingdom’s social care system operates under a framework designed to protect children and ensure transparency. Yet for many care-experienced people like me, the reality is one of systematic obstruction and institutional self-protection. Statutory mechanisms such as the … Continue reading →

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The Inheritance of Files: How the State Turned Guardianship into Surveillance

Posted on October 21, 2025 by societyshiddensecret

Trigger Warning: Mentions of state care, child abuse, and surveillance of care-experienced parents.Written from lived experience. A Child of the Court I became a ward of court at eight years old. From that moment, the state claimed legal guardianship over … Continue reading →

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Fostering for Purpose Vs Financial Gain.

Posted on October 11, 2025 by societyshiddensecret

Fostering is a good will job, that requires skill, time and a lot of energy. Good foster parents deserve financial support and help when fostering children. Children are expensive, and giving up your life to give someone else a fairer … Continue reading →

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Foster Placement 6 *trigger warning*

Posted on October 9, 2025 by societyshiddensecret

Please read placement number 6 before reading placement 6 *trigger warning*. this post is a part two, and has a part one. As I stated in part one, the foster mother was fake, manipulative and somewhat sadistic in her mannerisms. … Continue reading →

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Placement Number 6

Posted on October 8, 2025 by societyshiddensecret

The family who lived in placement number 6, were foster parents whom had four biological sons. This family fostered up to four girls at a time, mainly from biracial backgrounds. The foster children slept on bunk beds in one room … Continue reading →

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Foster Care Part 2 *trigger warning*

Posted on April 30, 2025 by societyshiddensecret

Foster family number 3 In 1991, I was placed with a black family who were personal friends with placement number 2. The new family lived in the same area, a few streets away from foster family number 2. Within four … Continue reading →

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