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Local Authority Failures, and Statutory Obligations
I want to talk about statutory obligation because during my time in care, there were many failures. I tried multiple times to make statutory complaints about my care while in childhood, and as an adult. Every single time I was … Continue reading
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Fostering for Purpose Vs Financial Gain.
Fostering is a good will job, that requires skill, time and a lot of energy. Good foster parents deserve financial support and help when fostering children. Children are expensive, and giving up your life to give someone else a fairer … Continue reading
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Foster Placement 6 *trigger warning*
Please read placement number 6 before reading placement 6 *trigger warning*. this post is a part two, and has a part one. As I stated in part one, the foster mother was fake, manipulative and somewhat sadistic in her mannerisms. … Continue reading
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Tagged child abuse, family, foster care, healing, historic abuse, life, lived-experience, mental-health, Trafficking, Trauma, writing
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Placement Number 6
The family who lived in placement number 6, were foster parents whom had four biological sons. This family fostered up to four girls at a time, mainly from biracial backgrounds. The foster children slept on bunk beds in one room … Continue reading
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Foster Care Part 2 *trigger warning*
Foster family number 3 In 1991, I was placed with a black family who were personal friends with placement number 2. The new family lived in the same area, a few streets away from foster family number 2. Within four … Continue reading
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Tagged abuse, childhood abuse, CSA, family, foster care, healing, historic abuse, Mental Health, mental-health, social work, Trauma
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Foster Care *Trigger Warning*
I was born in Bristol City, England UK in 1979, after my parents relocated to Bristol in the early 1970s. Most of my childhood was spent growing up during the 1980s and 90s. Bristol has a rich complex history, and … Continue reading
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Tagged abuse, child abuse, foster care, mental-health, Neglect, Trauma
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Utilizing Recovered Memories
I thought I would post more about my experience of memory recovery, and how it worked for me. First I will touch on the fact that repression of memories doesn’t happen on its own. It happens because care givers around … Continue reading
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Tagged CPSTD, healing, Memory, Memory Retrieval, Mental Health, PSTD, Recovered memory, therapy, Trauma
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CSA: From a legal perspective.
To be clear from the start. When looking at your experience from a legal perspective, the therapeutic side does not really come into it. Legal and therapy are too different entities that have too different jobs to do. In blunt … Continue reading
The Interrelation of CSA and Personal Circumstance.
Child sexual abuse affects every survivor differently — but the outcomes are not shaped by trauma alone. Class, race, gender, economics, and family systems interrelate with how survivors experience abuse, how they are responded to, and how they recover. Drawing … Continue reading
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Are Recovered Memories Real?
What a title, and what a war recovered memories saga had on society, the courts and world. When I first learned about recovered memories, it was the only thing that explained what I had gone through. For me, every little … Continue reading
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Tagged betrayal, healing, Memory, mental-health, relationships, Trauma
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Yes we do! Sorry for your experience, hopefully by talking about how these experiences impact us, we can create change,…